If life is in danger right now, call 000.
For crisis support any time, call Lifeline on 13 11 14.

Hax of Life · Wellbeing

Where to
get help.

I'm not a clinician and this isn't advice. It's a list of people who actually do this, so you don't have to go hunting while you're already flat.

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Someone to talk to, right now

Free, and answered by trained people.

Lifeline 24/7

13 11 14

Crisis support for anyone in Australia. If talking is too much, text or use the web chat. All three run round the clock.

NSW Mental Health Line 24/7

1800 011 511

Answered by mental health clinicians who work out what you need and refer you on. Call this one when you don't know what you're asking for. It's assessment and referral, not counselling.

Suicide Call Back Service 24/7

1300 659 467

Phone, chat and video counselling for anyone affected by suicide, including if you're worried about someone else.

MensLine Australia 24/7

1300 789 978

Counselling for men, especially around family and relationships.

Beyond Blue 24/7

1300 22 4636

Anxiety, depression, general low mood. Good when it's grinding rather than acute.

13YARN 24/7

13 92 76

Crisis support run by and for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people.

Lifeline Northern Beaches

Mosman to Kirribilli · all ages

Beyond the 13 11 14 line, the local centre runs low-cost counselling, free support groups, free financial counselling and training.

Walk in, no appointment

Free. No referral, no diagnosis, no Medicare card needed.

Medicare Mental Health Centres

1800 595 212

Free walk-in centres staffed by clinicians and peer workers who've been through it themselves. Thirty-three across NSW.

Your GP

Unglamorous, but it's the main door. A GP writes a Mental Health Treatment Plan, which unlocks Medicare-subsidised psychology sessions. Book a long appointment or you'll be rushed.

LocalKind

Community drop-in · all ages

Drop-in support covering homelessness, domestic and family violence, youth and family services, free counselling and multicultural services.

Emergency department

Any hospital ED, any time, if it's acute. Some Sydney hospitals also run Safe Havens, a calmer alternative to ED for distress that isn't a physical emergency.

Men's groups

Not therapy. Blokes in a room, which for a lot of us is the missing bit.

Men's Table

Men's connection · 18+

Groups of men meeting regularly to talk honestly and listen without judgement. Ongoing peer connection rather than a one-off.

WNOW — When No One's Watching

Men's mental health · 18–60

Men together each week for movement, conversation and coffee. Somewhere to make mates and talk straight.

Mongrels Men

Men's mental health · 18+

Community charity focused on preventing mental ill-health and suicide among Australian men. Gets men outdoors, moving and connected.

Spoke to a Bloke

Men's mental health · 18–60

Grassroots charity creating openings for real conversations through community events and local challenges.

One Door Mental Health — Pioneer Clubhouse

Mental health & connection · 18+

Peer-led community for people living with mental health challenges. Groups covering social connection, education, employment and recovery goals.

Dads

Bring the kids. No pressure to say anything.

Dad Steps

Dads & families · 26–60

Dads and their kids on relaxed weekend walks. No pressure, no expectations.

Saturdays 7:30am at Curly's, North Curl Curl
Sundays 7:30am at Kazzi Greek, Manly

Fireside Village — Dads of Neurodivergent Kids

Dads & families · 26–60

Monthly catch-up for dads in a neuroaffirming community. No lectures, no pressure to talk. Just dads round a fire.

Third Wednesday of the month, 7pm, Dee Why

The Fathering Project

Fathers & families · all ages

Evidence-based programmes for dads, from infancy through adolescence, focused on building stronger family relationships.

Move and connect

Sometimes the easiest way in is doing something, not saying something.

Meditation HQ

Wellbeing & connection · all ages

Free meditation on the beach. Open to anyone, including if you've never tried it.

Saturdays 6:30am

Vipers Run Club

Fitness & connection · 26–60

Volunteer-led running community using exercise to build belonging. Friendship first, pace second.

Sheds and skills

Somewhere to be, something to do, someone to talk to while your hands are busy.

Northern Beaches Community Men's Shed

Men's sheds · 60+

Not-for-profit workshop giving men a safe, friendly place to work on meaningful projects alongside other men.

Mosman Men's Shed

Men's sheds · all ages

Open to men and women. A shed for people who no longer have their own workshop or workspace.

North Sydney Men's Shed

Men's sheds · 60+

Fully equipped workshop. Share time, learn skills, work with timber, contribute to community projects.

Greenway Men's Shed

Men's sheds · 60+

Kirribilli and Milsons Point. Members make timber projects including bread, chopping and cheese boards, much of it from reclaimed timber.

Men's Kitchen Association

Men's sheds & social · 60+

Monthly cooking sessions for groups of eight to ten men, learning basic cooking in a social setting.

Recovery

Free, and led by people who've been through it.

The Overcomers Place

Recovery & support · 18+

Free trauma-informed programmes for people recovering from addiction, led by therapists with lived experience.

At work

For sites and industries where nobody talks about it.

MATES in Construction

Mental health & workplace · all ages

Industry-backed approach to mental health and suicide prevention on site. Connection, looking out for each other, and knowing where to turn.

Under 25

Free, private, and used to hearing anything.

PAVE Mentoring

Youth · under 25

One-to-one and group mentoring for teens and students. A trusted third space outside home and school.

Kids Helpline 24/7

1800 55 1800

Free, private counselling for anyone aged 5 to 25. Phone and web chat.